NRI Spouse Experiences

The Truth Set We Free

Posted by: Tiffany On 21 Mar 2017

I advise you Install Zeal-spy app in your husband's mobile phone and track. I needed to post this because i appreciate the good things done in my matrimonial home today Anyway i caught my husband cheating but right now we live happier then before, i contact a hacker but he's an old time class mate He's now married with two kid in cali. We met again two month back David "Global web" and later i called, telling him i needed to know why my husband always give his officially work as an excuses every time he want to leave the house. i suspect he's seeing another woman in those period honestly he let me see all his whatsapp, messenger and even phone conversations was wired directly to my cellphone to my phone particularly, it was so like a magic and i was really happy with my intention. hacker helped me put a round-the-clock monitoring on him and I got concrete evidence to show, i see he was really after his job and most times and most times he calls then he is really missing me. I was so happy with him and this brought so closer and i'm always there for him at the right time. i never wanna chat on my husband either so i only used the hack for some time and we keep loving.. Please you should mail him direct and be safe as well, you should tell him You got to him from TIFFANY from ohio, Then that will be very good.

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Hack Solution

Posted by: hilly On 03 Feb 2017

You think your boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse is cheating on you?….dont just jump into conclusion and ruin your relationship without proof that he or she is actually cheating on you….contact to know the whole truth. I almost ruined my marriage with a man i love so much because i noticed that he was hanging out with friends alot and he comes back home very late at night. I got so jealous because i knew the kind of friends he has and i began to think that they would have influenced him into flirting with other girls. So i told a friend of mine about it and she told me she has a friend whose husband is an ethical hacker and he has been tested and trusted by some of her friends having similar issues so i made contact with him and told him my problems. To my surprise, he helped me hack into my husbands facebook, whatsapp, phone calls, text messages and even deleted text messages and then i found out that i was wrong about my husband being flirty but that he was planning something big and lovely for our marriage with the help of….He is fast and very reliable

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I Need Help But Dont Know Who Can

Posted by: pinky On 03 Dec 2005

i have been married for 2 yrs now. my husband treats me like dirt. he doesnt hav any affair or anything but he verbally abuses me and even my parents who r in india. his parents do to. he has weird habits things which look good only as a child or a mentally handicapped person. he uses very cheap abusive language and has even tried to physically abuse me. to him wife means a slave from india who should be doing things as he wants her to. i am educated and am planning to go to school next year. but i am on dependent visa h4 and so i cannot work. and he knowing this threatens of divorcing me or sending me back. i have talked to people regarding my problem but everyone says that the truth is i legally have no rights to stop him from doing this and if he trully divorces me then he is not entitled for giving me any alimony. i have tried everything to make this work but it just wont. i need some answer to the time of my life that has been wasted. i will be called divorced. this too for no fault of mine. can someone help?

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Problem ...Solutions...

Posted by: SoormaBhopali On 19 Nov 2005

I have seen many cases of such issues and problems ,in most of cases wife complains husband is greedy ,works like machine no time for her or blah blah ....most of these cases are due to "cultural change" and wife new in US doesnt understand kindof job unsecurity husband feels ...and then problems at home front causes serious issues ...because wife and husband both are from non US back ground and they have different "mental state" one is soem what adopted (husband) and other is totally new ,dont know any thing about country and its problems simply blames husband ...It s soultion is very simple communicate and try to spend some time ...if this didn't work out try to visit India for some time ...becuase in india we remain socally attached and here totally isolated taht causes many mental /psycho issues .

Remember those saying calling 911 or divorce threat is not solution ,until unless its serious lile extra relation taht is not issue in most of cases ,do not spoil ur family life by such suggestions on this message board ...communicate ,communicate to your husband ,father sister friends ..thats solve most of problem ...also try to understand U are new to this envionment and trying to spend life with someone who is adapted in this ...Arrange or Love marriage both go thur this phase and those who are not in arranged marriage feel more insecure as in most cases they dont get "support" from any one in family ...

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Wife Too

Posted by: Ken On 27 Aug 2005

To all those who read this. Please remember, there are some girls too
who behave like men. Do not forget this. One my friends married a girl who were eagerly waiting for one of years just for him. All becuase he was working in USA. Eventhough he was 14 years elder than her, the girls mother decided to give her daughter to him. This poor guy did not know that. Anyhow marriage was over, then the girl start to give him trouble. Right from the beginning she started to note down his bank account number, bank balance, and everthing in the home. The on one situation when the was a conflict and heated arguments arised, she called 911 and she said he slapped. That is it.
He went to jail. He plan was worked out and successful. She ran away with ten thousand dollars to india with their kid. Now this pool buy is alone passing his life in US after his jail term.

See there are some bad girls like my friend's wife. Marry just for money and US dream.

"Not all men are bad and not all women are good"

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Don't Afraid From Your Citizen Or Greencard Holder Spouse

Posted by: Friend On 29 Jun 2005

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Be Strong

Posted by: A Husband On 31 May 2005

I would like to give a simple advice, to all the wifes who are strong. What I mean by that is that you should not silently suffer your husbands abuse. If they keep getting away with it, thye will keep doing it. You have to make them realize that they cannot get away by abusing you. You can call or threaten to call 911, you can shout for help when he abuses. Beleive me such beasts, never want the world to find out their true colors, so just the threat of being exposed can do the trick.

Bottomline is, never take the abuse quitely. Always fight back, be it by threating to divorce, calling 911 or getting help from neighbours and friends. Find out what scares him the most. Is it the threat of calling 911, or threat of calling neighbors or threat of divoce, and use it to your advantage. Also remember, have the courage to carry the threat through if situation demands it. There is no point in degrading yourself and suffering in silence.

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Long Time....

Posted by: lost On 25 May 2005

hi everybody,
saw all the msgs here after a long time. didn't want to come back, but couldn't resist. guess there was some anger coz i wasn't replying.
well! finally i've got two part-time jobs , so i am getting gruelled from 8a.m. to 8p.m. most of the days. no complaints, i can take the job-tension. the scene at home is no good. earlier my husband used to insult me coz according to him i was eating from his money, and now, since i've started earning, he insults me saying that my contribution is peanuts, and i wouldn't be able to live alone on my income. it is still because of him that i can survive in this country! i agree that i donot earn as much as he does, but when i see other people's wives who blow up their husband's money for everything, without any care, i feel i am much better. not to mention that i also envy these women whose husbands donot think that they r a burden on them. well! as i've told u all earlier we've had many nasty fights, and now i am totally immune to whatever he says to me. after rebuking, insulting, and abusing me, when i don't reply to him, he laughs at me and says that i can't reply coz i have no self-repect in me. maybe that's true that i've lost it.
someone mentioned that i can file for divorce and he'll have to give half of his savings to me. well! i don't want any of his money at all. even divorce won't solve anything for me, as i said earlier. my parents will probably kill themselves if i go for a divorce.
my worry is that if my parents r to visit me over here, i am scared that how much will my husband whine if he'll have to spend money on them, like for taking trips around US or anything. if not in front of them, then after they leave, every moment he'll make me realize what a big favor he has done to me for keeping my parents. they r planning to visit sometime, and i don't know what excuse to make to them so that they don't come, until i could find a decent job for myself. some full-time job which has a decent salary. i know that way i won't have time to spend with them, but atleast i can send them for a trip around US.
right now the jobs i am doing, i am paid hourly, and they r not up to my qualification as well. i know it's a difficult thing to find a job, but i'll keep trying. kahin-na-kahin to lag jaani chahiye.
i haven't been to India to visit my parents even once since i got married. but it seems like a far cry now, coz whenever i mention that the same thing comes up - money that he'll have to spend on my trip. so i made an excuse to my parents that i can't come because there is no leave in my job, whereas the truth is that i will happily leave my jobs and go, and again come back and look for another. but i donot have that liberty. so that's why my parents r planning to visit.
i want to earn so much that i can keep my parents here without any tension and make their stay enjoyabale, and if possible also make a trip to India. but it seems with the current income that i get, it'll take me another 3-4 years to earn that much. also my husband does not want to invest in any car for the "peanuts" i bring in, even though i go to two places. so he has left no choices for me. if i find a job which is very far from where we stay, i don't know how we'll handle. he says that first i should show him that i can earn big enough to get me a car. i can understand that though. but in this country it is very difficult without a car. many a times i have to walk down for one part-time job, and for the other i borrow his car. so commuting takes much of my time. i am not an excellent cook, but i manage to cook enough for two days. so that way i won't have to cook everyday. thankfully he is not complaining much about the food nowadays. so that's one good thing in my life. i miss India a lot, very much. there i didn't have to worry about anything once i got back from work. it was good to get back from work those days.
well! don't know when will i be checking this site again, hopefully sooner, but it feels good to write down one's feelings, and what's going on in one's mind.
thanks & hope u all have a nice time in this long weekend!

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Well I Agree With You

Posted by: MNM On 19 May 2005

I certainly agree with you that there are many girls who don't want to work and think 'Shaadi' is the ultimate aim in life.

They are one of those girls who go to engineering colleges to just add another degree in their 'bio data' for their parents to find a better match,the day they get married they think their husband is going to feed them, dress them and keep them really well.Most of the girls are brought up that way who think before the wedding its their parents and after the wedding they are their husband's responsibility.

Now this may offend a lot of girls out here but honestly I am one and hate to become a liability on anyone be it my parents or husband.I know how to make way in this world and use my education and be an independent individual.

Its important for everyone to realise that be it a man or a woman one needs to have their own indentity to be recognised and treated well in society.

All the best !

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